It is 1:03 AM. I can’t sleep. So, I got up and put my laundry away, put my room in order, and decided to blog.
Life has been amazing. Amazingly good, amazingly stressful, and amazingly blessed. Everything to becoming an insurance agent over the summer, to answering phone calls about insurance questions and claims (EEEK!) to dating the man of my dreams and growing as a couple, to planning our future together. This summer has been incredibly wonderful. There are so many things I could write about at this wee hour of the morning. I could write about my job, or I could write about the presidential debate, or I could write about my new hair-do. But, I have something far more important I want to write about right now. I want to write about marriage.
Although I am not yet married, I love talking about marriage. I see it as an opportunity, a journey, a cross, a blessing and a GIFT. I hope to always see marriage in this way.
Marriage is a journey whereby a man and a woman commit their lives to each other to grow in holiness and share in the joys and struggles together – to help each other carry their crosses and rejoice in their blessings – to help each other get to Heaven.
In my opinion, there are far too many people who see marriage as a day where the couple signs up for long-term misery. In the past several years, I’ve had co-workers tell me not to get married because “life is much easier when you’re not married.” That is so sad to hear because that gives marriage a bad rap. I’m not denying the fact that marriage is hard. That is a given. Any noble cause such as marriage is hard. It takes a lot of work and a lot of selflessness. I just had it on my heart to write about marriage and remind you that it’s good, and imperfect, and even though it’s hard, it. is. beautiful.
Once a very wise man told me that marriage is not 50/50. It is 100/100. We give everything for the sake of the other person. We withhold no generosity, kindness, charity or patience even when we are tired and feel like we have nothing left to give. If life were more about giving of ourselves as much as we could, can you imagine what an amazing world this would be? It would be simply amazing!
My boyfriend B. and I pray for each other every day. Even though he lives out of town, we still find ways to have date nights on a regular basis. We love each other through the good and the bad, the laughs and the misunderstandings. We carry each other’s crosses and work stresses, and we share each others joys and blessings. We pray together and ask God’s blessings on our lives and our future together (and we pray for our forthcoming engagement this year! I’m so excited I can hardly wait!!!!)
I have been praying for my future marriage for years. I have dreamed of my wedding day over and over again, and have dreamed of having my own children. I want it so badly that it sometimes makes me cry. I pray that I may be a good and holy wife and mother, and an obedient daughter of God. I pray for married couples and for couples who hope to be married someday. Marriage is good, beautiful and holy. It is hard and it is difficult. It is all a GIFT from GOD.
I pray that you may find peace, love and joy in your marriage. God is there with you through the good and the bad. Because He loves you.
You are worthy of a beautiful marriage.